tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11932250178795433692024-03-05T03:33:54.576-06:00Seeking FaithfulnessHollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.comBlogger198125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-20889031786966123522015-11-23T21:51:00.000-06:002015-11-23T22:51:33.392-06:00Interview with Smockity Frocks author, Connie Hughes, on the Role of Fitness in the Life of a Homeschooling Mom<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">I have been friends with Connie from the </span><a href="http://www.smockityfrocks.com/" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;" target="_blank">Smockity Frocks</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"> blog for over a decade. Throughout the years, I've watched as she's journeyed through pregnancies, deliveries, babies, toddlers, homeschool, relocation and job loss. I've laughed (and respected!) as she's worked through library, llama, and scorpion fiascos. Now, as a mom of 8, she still balances young children, school at home, business ventures, and two kids in college.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">There are many things I admire about Connie, many questions I'd like to ask her. She's a successful woman in so many ways...maintaining a positive and consistent blog for so many years is one of them. Someday, I'm going to show up on her doorstep, and see if she'll answer all of my questions.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">Today, however, I've focused on one of the more recent successes I've watched play out in Connie's life. She's one of those people who will never announce that she's trying out a new health routine. Modest about her achievements, she'll just never mention it. Every so often over our years of friendship, I'd send her a note, saying, "Are you doing something different? You look great!" Maddeningly, she'd write back with just a simple "yes," as if she didn't have time to reply with all of the kids and school and animals and business commitments....</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">This was not enough for me. I wanted her to TELL me all about her top secret, magic elixer. She was aging backwards, and I wanted to know HOW! Why was she looking like a schoolgirl again? That's not really how it is supposed to work when a woman has birthed 8 children (with no epidurals...she is TOUGH.) Everyone knows that children age you, that repeat pregnancies are hard on a woman's body. (I know this as I have nine children, myself.) </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">This summer, I noticed that Connie began to casually mention "CrossFit."</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"><br />"This is new," I thought. <br /><br />Connie and I had always said that the hard work of raising a family was enough to keep us active. "Who needs a gym or regular workout?" Had something changed?<br /><br />I wondered if she would be willing to grant me an interview. I asked and she agreed, happily for me! Connie continues in modest appraisal of her success, but that is one of the things I love about her. In the interview below, she shares the philosophy of health which keeps her going. I suspect it's the same philosophy which fuels many aspects of her life.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"><b>Holly:</b> <b> Connie, I know that you do quite a few things to stay healthy. Most recently, you have joined CrossFit. Would you tell me a little bit about that? What got you started, and how long have you been going?</b></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"><b>Connie: </b> My 20 year old daughter, Madison, had been talking for a few months about how fun it would be if the two of us joined CrossFit together. Honestly, that sounded like the opposite of fun to me for a few reasons.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">I have never been athletic. I was always the last one picked for kickball teams. I am not known to be strong or fast.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">But Madison was relentless, and she finally reeled me in with the admonition, "I bet you are afraid you CAN'T do it and that's why you won't try it."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">That girl knows I can't resist a challenge!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">We signed up for 2 free trial days, and it was EXCRUCIATING! I have never sweated so much! I have also never laughed so much with my daughter. Madison couldn't stop talking about how fun it was, and she was home from college for the summer and pleaded with me to sign up for the summer program with her.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">I realized that I had a rare chance to spend time each day with my adult daughter doing something she enjoyed, and just couldn't pass that up. I was keenly aware that very soon she will be focused on her own life, her own career, her own family.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">We spent that sweaty summer laughing and getting stronger together every morning before the rest of the family awoke.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">When she went back to college in another state, she joined a CrossFit Gym there, and my gym offered me a discounted rate to sign up for 6 more months. I looked at my arms, a little stronger than they were before. I considered my energy level. I was a little less sluggish than I had been in years. I realized, to my astonishement, that I had actually been enjoying CrossFit!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">I signed up for a 6 month contract, and I now go every Monday</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"> through Friday</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"> at 7:00 a.m.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"> I am not the strongest, or the fastest, and I expect I never will be either of those. But I am proving to myself and the rest of my family that I can do hard things! I am proving that trying hard at something for an extended period produces results even if you start out having never done that thing before.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">My 15 year old daughter recently decided she would like to play varsity basketball for the local Christian school (which accepts homeschooled students in their sports programs). Even though she has NEVER played basketball in her life, she set out to practice every day until time to try out for the team.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">SHE IS NOW ON THE VARSITY BASKETBALL TEAM!</span><br />
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<span separator="" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></span>I am so proud that she is willing to try something new, something hard, something that requires dedication to see results. I want to be an example of those things.
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"><b>Connie: </b>There are many mornings I don't want to get out of bed. There are even many mornings when I am getting out of the car that I think, "I DON'T want to do this!"</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">The thing is, I know deep down and with a certain sureness that if I didn't do all the things I didn't feel like doing, the laundry would never get done, the dishes would never be clean, diapers wouldn't get changed, Algebra wouldn't be taught, and so much more.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">I consider going to Cross Fit every morning part of disciplining myself to do things because those things are GOOD, not because they are EASY.<br /><br />I hope that by doing this, besides reaping the health benefits, I am showing my children this very important concept. I hope they will always be willing to do hard things.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"><b>Connie: </b> When I first started, I could not even do the daily warm up of running 200 meters. I HATE running, and I really dreaded this daily warmup. Each day I was totally winded, heart racing, staggering in minutes after the last runner finished the 200 meters.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">Now? I can run the distance with no problem. No stopping, no gasping for breath, and sometimes I am not last!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">Today, we did our usual warm up run and then our workout included 5 ROUNDS of running 200 meters, flipping a tire 5 times, and 10 (14-pound) med ball cleans. I managed to do this workout in under 15 minutes. That's not any kind of record for anyone but me. But for me, it is phenomenal progress!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"><b>Holly: Sometimes we truly get so discouraged that we can't see any way around our circumstances. What would you say to the woman who says, "I am too old, or my body is in such bad shape, I can't possibly do anything with my circumstances of life?"</b></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">Connie: I would tell her there are grandmothers at my gym who come to workout every day. There is one in particular who has recently lost 120 pounds.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">I am 49, stretched out, creaky, slow, tired and weak. BUT...I am getting less so! Slowly I can see and feel that I can run farther, lift more, and last longer than I did the first day. I am constantly striving to be better. Isn't this our goal in all of life?</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">"Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">We are not called to be better than everyone else. Just better than we were yesterday.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">I admit this is sometimes an issue my pride struggles with. I don't like to be last or weakest. Sometimes on certain weight lifting exercises, I have to use the tiny 5 lb metal plates while everyone else has the giant rubber plates on their bars. But I remind myself that I am not competing with any of them. I am getting stronger daily.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;">Today, I added 10 lbs. to the push press for a new record for myself. EVERY SINGLE other person in the gym had more weight on their bars, even the grandmas. BUT I BEAT MY OLD RECORD. I am improving!<br /><br /><i>Thank you, Connie, for taking the time to share with us about fitness which is successfully working for you. More importantly, thank you for being open about what drives you to continue pressing toward your goals: Hard work, persistence, and a desire to be a good example for your children. Best wishes, and I look forward to watching you progress throughout the years! <br /><br /></i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;"><br /></span>Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-17656885011522738622014-03-31T21:27:00.001-05:002014-04-01T09:15:07.752-05:00Catching kissesI pulled out into my country drive-way this afternoon, and my little girl flashed across the backyard on her way to the swing. Her "little red riding hood" coat swung against bare legs tucked in rainboots, and she flashed a grin devoid of front upper teeth before she blew a kiss for me to take with me.<br />
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I captured that kiss and flung one back to her heart.<br />
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We blow kisses now, and save them for the crazy days when we might know nothing at all.<br />
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I spent the afternoon with my father at the heath center (nursing home) where he has been for two weeks. He's been having some crazy nights, where he doesn't sleep and his still-mechanically-driven mind drives him to take apart everything in his room. <br />
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In the hospital he ripped out his iv and his catheter. In the health center, he took apart the television set and ripped off his electronic tether. <br />
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He had a particularly bad night last night; he wandered the halls and kept everyone else awake. He insists upon shoes at all times, but he can't remember how to tie them and sometimes he even forgets his pants and one sock. <br />
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He is in a state of unbalanced adrenals. It affects him in bizarre ways. Some days are awful, some are alright. Today he was clothed and upright when I entered his room. He might not have been able to recall my name, but he still knew that I was his girl and when I wrapped him up in my arms he melted like my little child. <br />
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I sat beside him and held his hand, lifted his flannel shirt and mismatched polyester plaid slacks to check his arms and legs for swelling. He could not tell me how he felt. "Can't say...you'll have to ask someone else..." but as I stayed beside him on his bed he said, "Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer." (Psalm 19:14, NASB)<br />
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We played a game we've played thousands of times. He couldn't remember how to play, but expressed frustration that I couldn't follow the rules. It didn't bother me in the slightest, as it's just like playing with my 3-year-old son. Who cares where the marbles go? Are we having a good time together? Checkers also confused him, so we just stacked them. <br />
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We walked the halls.<br />
We went to therapy.<br />
We sat and watched the birds at the bird-feeder, where he marveled that some birds were faster learners than others.<br />
He could not remember how many children I have (nine, Dad...) but he could tell me the name of every member of his great-grandfather's family and how many children they each had. <br />
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We sat, and I just held his hand for a long time... because I could and because he is still here.<br />
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His hand is still warm. This won't always be. One day, I will touch his hand and it will be cold; and that will be the end of such times on this earth. When that day comes, I will mourn, but it will in no way be the end. Dad has not been perfect, nor have I; but we both love Jesus and He is our Lord. We will have a lot of time in the Life to come. Still, I store up love for the days to come, when he is no longer here: hugs, hand-holding, and kisses.<br />
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I hugged him goodbye; he laid his head on my shoulder and I think he would have just stayed there. I know that it is not considered proper to compare the elderly to children. For my father, it is appropriate. He has become much like one of my littlest children. <br />
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I threw a good-bye kiss from the door. He smiled and bid me safe-travels. His smile, missing the front teeth, is just like my little girl's. I caught that too, and stuck it in my heart...for he and I are in the crazy days.<br />
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I do not miss the reality that each one of us is one burst vessel away from catastrophe, one slight medical misstep from forgetting our pants or which way to the bathroom. I can barely stay on my feet (from the need to kneel before Jesus) with the paucity of my own strength and how quickly life flees. Too soon, that gappy-toothed girl and the three-year old who clings to me as I walk in the door will be returning the favors I've done for my dad. I hope they're okay with simply hugging me and holding my hand because it's still warm when the time comes. <br />
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Catch those kisses and tuck them in tight. <br />
xoxoHollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-54556272222561957772014-03-30T00:24:00.001-05:002014-03-30T00:24:30.291-05:00The Stubborn Root
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(This post is from almost five years ago. My Dad is at a different place now; he is at a place of need. I once wondered if I would know when more help was needed, and he assured me that I would. He was right.)<br /><br />I walked past Dad, my arms wrapped full of branches from my own pruning.<br />
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The day was near 90, I was finished with my job and was ready to
clean up and head inside for a cool drink. I took my branches on down
to the pile, then climbed the small hill to see what he was doing.<br />
He was scuffling his knees through a rough patch of rocks; tugging
and yanking at roots, pausing now and again to pick up his pruners in
his effort to uproot an insidious bush.<br />
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“Want some help?”<br />
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“No.”<br />
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Of course not. It is fine for me to help my mother, she needs it after all. But him? Need help? Never.<br />
Fierce independence brought him to good health at 85. It makes him
strong and keeps him grumpy, and I wouldn’t take it away from him for
the world. He knows that once he loses the ability to do something, he
is unlikely to gain it back. He forges on, never giving himself
permission to be indulgent nor choose the easy path. Tougher than <em>anything</em>, this one.<br />
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But still. This work will take him days. I crawl under a guidewire and start tugging at loose roots.<br />
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“Been working on this for weeks already,” he confides. “Gonna do this patch here, and then quit.”<br />
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I leave the pruners to him, pulling my shears out of my pocket for
the little branches. I won’t take a man’s work away from him. I’m
his girl. I can’t be stronger than he is.<br />
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He cuts, I pull. The pruners slip, his hand hits a jagged rock.
Skin that is paper-thin tears when it brushes against a doorframe. You
can imagine what stones do. I wince, but don’t say anything. I’ve
made that mistake before, and he won’t take it. He laughs my off my concern.<br />
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“Oh, that. It doesn’t hurt. I don’t even feel it. It’ll be
better by tomorrow.” I nod, agreeing with him. It’s really the only
way.<br />
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We continue, me surprised that he has let me stay. He loves me, but I can’t have his work. As he once said, “If you take all
of my work from me, I won’t have any reason to be around.”<br />
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Well. I won’t do that, then.<br />
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At one point a year or so ago I asked, “Dad, how will I know when you really do need help?”<br />
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He replied, “You’ll know.”<br />
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Okay. But until then, can we work side by side at times?<br />
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We can, and this time we did. We finished the entire patch, both of
us red faced with heat and sweat and effort. He even surrendered the
pruners for a time, so that I might reach in at a differing
angle. I worked hard and fast, knowing that he would not let me have
them for long. We talked about a nephew’s wedding and how to
eradicate the offensive plant once and for all.<br />
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“Boiling water,” he says.<br />
“Boiling salt water, I say.<br />
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He concurs.<br />
Nothing taken from independence; but a little bit of me given and little bit received.<br />
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“Thanks, my girl.”<br />
“My pleasure, Dad.”<br />
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I don’t expect it again anytime soon – and that’s just fine with me. Let’s make it last as long as we can.<br />
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I could have had more time,<br />
more house,<br />
more room.<br />
I chose <i>you</i>.<br />
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I could have had more money,<br />
more things,<br />
dinners out…<br />
I chose <i>you</i>.<br />
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More me,<br />
More sleep,<br />
more freedom;<br />
I chose <i>you</i>.<br />
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Less mess,<br />
less cooking,<br />
less laundry;<br />
I chose <i>you</i>.<br />
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Less school,<br />
less PBS,<br />
less PBJ;<br />
I chose <i>you</i>.<br />
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Because of <i>you</i>,<br />
I have MORE.<br />
More love,<br />
more memories,<br />
more smiles,<br />
more delight,<br />
more joy.<br />
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<i>Where would I be without you?</i>Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-88702729357002092882013-02-28T10:56:00.000-06:002013-02-28T10:59:10.586-06:00Yearning<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Along about the end of February, winter becomes the guest who has over-stayed its welcome.. We yearn for days like these, above, where bare-footed children run and climb unfettered.Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-23752931520855661582013-02-21T08:03:00.001-06:002013-02-21T08:03:44.342-06:00Just to make you smile...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-39344841271220583372013-02-15T16:59:00.005-06:002013-02-15T16:59:41.734-06:00Ben<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Benjamin Cade,</div>
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my critter-loving boy...</div>
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is now seven.</div>
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He's still little enough to sit on my lap,</div>
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Still small enough to not care very much for school,</div>
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but big enough to be doing well with reading, writing and arithmetic.</div>
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Big enough to check eggs and feed the cats,</div>
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Big enough to shoot a slingshot and a cap-gun,</div>
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Little enough to still climb trees and </div>
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Our seventh child is seven.</div>
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He's just perfect,</div>
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<br />Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-74151551020945781072013-02-15T16:45:00.000-06:002013-02-15T16:45:07.271-06:00Farm Babies<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I brought home some new babies yesterday.</div>
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Black Jersey Giant</div>
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The chick above was from a different batch from last fall. Back in September we hatched these cuties out from eggs from our own flock. We did pretty well for our first-ever hatch, with a hatch-rate of around 60%.</div>
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This week, at four and a half months old, they began laying the tiniest, cutest, little brown eggs. </div>
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On one occasion, we actually had a chicken and a cat vying for the same nesting space. The chicken ended up sitting on top of the cat, and they stayed there for several hours. I guess they both won.<br />
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We fell into country life quite easily. No longer could I say "no" to animals for the children.<br />
(Although we have had to make certain adjustments in animal ownership. I no longer let the kids grow attached to roosters. Roosters, by necessity, come and go. Live and learn!) <br />
We have around 55 chickens, and I anticipate a few more chicks in a few weeks. I have not decided whether I will raise meat birds or not, although we certainly have the room for it.<br />
There is a pasture and the place is fenced for quite a few different types of animals.<br />
Today, a friend brought me two rabbits, and I'm on the lookout for a couple of piglets, maybe some turkeys in March to pasture thru the summer in anticipation of Thanksgiving. <br />
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It's a very natural fit for our family. My parents and my sister are such organic sources of farm wisdom, so the learning curve has been gentle.<br />
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Farm babies, like all babies, grow up quickly. They are renewable, however, so the enjoyment goes on and on. When one batch grows up, we can begin all over again.</div>
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When I was a little girl, I sat on the floor and watched my mama's brown legs as she stood hot, endless hours at the counter canning peaches. I wondered how she stood for so long, how they remained so strong. Didn't she ever get tired? Didn't she ever want to stop?<br />
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As I grew into a teen, I moved to the chair, sometimes peeling along with her. She still stood, and I still wondered.<br />
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How?<br />
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She was up at dawn, tending to something or the other, always up, always working, never, never stopping. She raised four children and faced Carter's deep recession by growing a bigger garden.<br />
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She was a pastor's wife, so along with a hard physical life of self-sufficiency, she carried the grief of my father's congregations: wayward children (one of them her own,) miscarried babies, accidents which took fathers. At times, the loads were so heavy that I could not understand how she got up in the morning, let alone kept doing the work of her life.<br />
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All these years later, the secret is finally mine. I never asked, she never told me. I just watched, and learned.<br />
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I got here the same way she did.<br />
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You just....do. You get up. You keep going. You do the job in front of you. You grow weary and overwhelmed. You despair. You become exhausted.<br />
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You think about what would happen if you dropped it all, just lay all of the responsibilities on the floor and walked away, let someone else handle them.<br />
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Then you think about everyone who would suffer if you did that, think of the ones who depend on you and trust you....<br />
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And you know that while your job is impossible, quitting is not an option. Quitting would devastate the lives of those you love, and you won't do that.<br />
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During the tough years, this may be a daily cycle. <br />
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Daily you give it up, drop it all, momentarily reject it, give it back to God, go to sleep, knowing that the only way you will make it thru and endure is by letting Him carry you and set you back on your legs. <br />
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You get up in the morning, and you do it all over again....not for yourself, but for the ones you carry, the ones who trust in you.<br />
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You get strong legs for standing by just doing it - day after day after day.<br />
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God, in you, accomplishes the impossible the same way. Small task by small task, moment by moment, year by year...<br />
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one day, by His grace, you will look back and be amazed at how far He's carried you and what you've endured and <b>just how long you can stand</b>. <br />
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Dear Daddies and Mamas,<br />
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Let us never assume that we have the corner on teaching, that our children are given to us specifically so that they may learn from our vast stores of knowledge.<br />
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I like to think I've journeyed far in my Christian faith.<br />
Sometimes I even toy with the idea that I've got wisdom, that if these kids would just pay attention, they will learn so much from me.<br />
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by a ten-year-old boy too sweet to have come from under my hardened and complaining heart.<br />
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From his feverish sickbed on the couch, my Josiah talks with me as I work thru my own stomach pain and pick up stray kleenex and kicked-off socks.<br /><br />"You know, I'm thankful, Mom. I really am....for lots of things." And he makes a list: the couch he is laying on, a mama to take care of him, movies to watch, medicine and cold water.<br />
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I think I stop and stare, a little discombobulated from the daze and the last few days with hardly any sleep. I am definitely not thankful. In fact, I've already run so far from thankful that I'm contemplating the goodness of God over a simple flu. (Sleep-deprivation is not something I handle well.) <br />
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He softens me, this boy who was a gift himself; in his own weakness he reflects his Father's glory with a pure and simple act of thanksgiving.<br />
I may be the mama, but I have far to go and much, still, to learn. He didn't get this gratitude from me - it came from his own heart which is turned in love toward God.<br />
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*these photos are recycled from several years ago. I don't think any of us are up to taking/uploading pictures right now. Ah well, you've seen one bad flu, you've seen them all. Things look much prettier in photographs.Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-17464042077782429222013-01-30T23:19:00.001-06:002013-01-30T23:28:44.387-06:00The Granary<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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At first we had hoped to save it. We dreamed a bit about making a type of bunkhouse out of it, or a music studio for the kids. There actually is a lot of good/sturdy wood left standing, but as always, choices must be made of where to spend time and money. The fall and winter winds have been brutal, and have whipped even more boards and tin loose. We just can't do it - it is too far gone. Soon we will begin taking it apart, and hopefully using the wood to repair gaps and broken places in our second, larger barn. </div>
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I like to think about the early days at this farm, and about the people who built the home and outbuildings. I would assume that the wood came from trees surrounding the property, seeing that there was no Home Depot that long ago, and lumber would have needed to come from nearby. Maybe the farmer felled them and planed them himself. The timbers used for the granary and the barn are impressive - 10 x 10 beams (at least) held together by wood pegs. The floor plankings are solid, 10 or 12" by 1 or 2", depending on the place and the need. What they say is true, "they just don't make barns like this any longer."</div>
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Last night our daughter Emily signed up for the SAT. Her year as a high school junior is swiftly passing. Even after releasing our two oldest boys into the wild, my heart is disbelieving that soon it will be her turn to make the decisions that will direct the course of her life.<br />
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I don't know if all mothers would say the same (probably not...I can only give my perspective,) but the thought of graduating a daughter feels much more emotionally difficult than it was with my sons.<br />
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It's not gender inequity, for while I am so traditional I'm now seen as untraditional (did you understand that?,) I also am so thankful for the freedom I had to make my own choices and appreciate my college experience and degree. I graduated high school and went away to college at the age of 17. My father made it very clear well before there was a potential mate in the picture that he desired for me to finish college before I got married. I met the boy who would become my husband in October of my freshman year. My fate was forever sealed and I knew it from the moment we connected, but I kept my promise to my dad. I always felt like I got a good deal in the bargain with my father, because I worked hard and graduated college in three years, then married two weeks after graduation ceremonies. I loved college, loved learning, and would have continued on for advanced degrees if God had led me in that direction. I do not assume that college is in the future plan for every one of our children, but so far our first three have desired/or do desire to go.<br />
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I think that more of what I feel at the prospect of graduating a daughter is realizing just how much I'm going to miss her if she does decide to go away to college as opposed to staying local. (And I'm trying hard to not be morose and I won't be making any decisions for her nor trying to influence her decisions. I'm just pensive, thank-you-very-much.) My daughters are my friends. My sons are too - we are all very, very close. The boys were not with me as much, though, they were off forging their way, mowing lawns, tearing things down or building things up, and the girls? We are usually together. We depend upon each other. We are deeply interconnected. In many ways, we have grown up together and they are my friends.<br />
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How about you? Have you sent any of your children off to college yet? Are you able to compare the process for sons versus daughters? Do you think that you would have different advice for your daughters than for your sons? I'd like to talk about this in the near future, so look forward to what you have to say both now and in future conversations.<br />
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I had a conversation with a woman the other day, and she expressed horror that I had so many children. She was very alarmed that my children would use up so many of the world's resources, and would grow up to be rampant, materialistic consumers. <br />
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(I am not offended, she doesn't know us. I welcomed a chance to express a different view.)<br />
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Her view is one (sad and negative) way to see the world. Another way is to raise your children to give more than they take, to produce more than they use, to be healers and creators and problem solvers who bring the hope that comes from a loving and caring God to the world.<br />
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Anyway, I had to smile because a few minutes after having the conversation I helped get my youngest boy dressed up in warm clothes so he could play outside. The little coat I zipped up? It was originally a hand-me-down from an older nephew (who is now a 25 year old former Marine,) and now all six of my sons have worn it through the years.<br />
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That's one thing I love about having a large family - everything gets completely and thoroughly used up. I have zero consumeristic guilt. There's very little waste, and when there are things in excess, we love to find someone else who can benefit from what we don't need.Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-85279168112132168622013-01-24T22:49:00.003-06:002013-01-24T22:49:37.499-06:00First days on the farm<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We bought the old farmstead in the summer from homeschooling friends of ours who had a desire to move further southward. The house is around 100 years old, and is of a simple, farmhouse style. It was well-maintained, and doesn't need any immediate remodeling. We will need to add additional family/living room space and another bathroom someday in the future.<br />
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There are three acres, and while we have quite a few large shade trees, we are surrounded by farmland. I grew up with a national forest in my backyard, and that always felt a little creepy and foreboding as night fell. I love the wide, open space here - it feels like a prairie. It's a little bit of heaven after years of living on a small lot in town. When the weather is nice, the kids just run like crazy; they can't get enough of the freedom to run. Moving to the country feels like one of the nicest things we've ever been able to do for our youngest children. (The older ones love it too.)<br />
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Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-91647607001760515182013-01-22T10:52:00.004-06:002013-01-22T10:52:47.430-06:00Toddler, Thy Name is Difficult<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This is not a staged photo. He really does love this book. :) So appropriate! :) (I think he just likes the shiny printing on the front.)<br />
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Some people have easy toddlers.<br />
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We are not *some people.* Most of our toddlers have been quite difficult.<br />
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given enough time, patience, tolerance, love and stability, even really difficult toddlers grow up to be wonderful people.<br /><br />Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-7685140550903134262013-01-20T23:06:00.002-06:002013-01-21T09:20:23.029-06:00Why would you do THAT?So, herein again....a quick navel-gazing session whereby I explore the "why" of blogging. I know that most of you who have been around for a long time know that this is simply a journal. (I've been online for almost ten years now...embarrassingly so, sometimes.) When I think of it this way, I wonder why I haven't accomplished more in a decade. :)<br />
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After five years in Southern Indiana, we've settled into our community. I've met new people, made new friends....and the world is even more connected. I guess that I just want to give a little explanation to any new readers. Over the years, I've gotten quizzed -<br />
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"What do you hope to accomplish with a blog?" (Which sent me into a spiraling existential crisis when I couldn't come up with a real PURPOSE...) and, from my very private siblings, "Why would you do THAT?"<br />
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Well....honestly....to answer both of the questions for old friends and new,<br />
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I dunno. :)<br />
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I have no agenda. I've lived long enough now to realize that I don't actually know enough about life to tell other people how to live theirs. I have enough on my plate to even notice how you are juggling yours. (And I think that's good....I think that's a point God's been trying to get across to me for a long, long time. "Hey you - live YOUR life. Live the life that I have for YOU and the ones I've blessed you with. Mind your own business. Start by making YOUR world better, and let me deal with the overflow or whatever happens after that.")<br />
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So, that's it. Just...living life....and loving to write (and needing to write so that I stay in some sort of practice) and missing the record of our days when times are too busy to blog. <br />
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There are times over the years when I have avoided blogging certain things because they are mundane or boring, and I've thought..."who really wants to read this?"<br />
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I guess I'm over that. :) If I'm blogging to keep a record, well, very often, being a "stay-at-home-homeschooling mom" is quite mundane. (I know, I know. Try to not let me see that shocked face, okay?)<br />
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So, along with satisfying your curiosity with large families, you'll be getting a regular farm report.<br />
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Just not at dawn. I'm too lazy for that.<br />
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Thanks for stopping by....<br />
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I'll play a little bit of catch up here for awhile, mostly photographs with a little bit of commentary.<br />
This spring our second son, Nicholas, graduated from our homeschool. He was thrilled. (Does it show?) Two down, seven to go. I'm thankful for a brief break before Emily's senior year and the great college/transcript rush begins anew. (2014.)<br />
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Nick is a freshman in college now, living about two hours from us. He left for school the same week that we moved. I'm not certain if two major transitions at once were easier; but perhaps they were. He seems to be doing very well out on his own; and if the sounds from the piano are any indicator he is progressing quickly as he majors in music. All I know for sure is that he is greeted like a rock-star when he returns home, and we are so very proud of him. Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-68702407928554471642013-01-10T22:31:00.003-06:002013-01-10T22:31:59.173-06:00In Which I Became a Country GirlI never intended to walk away....honestly...but it has been a good year. Some of you have been so gracious to periodically stop by or say hello - and I owe you an update!<br />
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This year has been full of so many things. <br />
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In late summer we bought an old farmhouse on three acres. Our family of eleven divvied up our favorite books and moved in three separate ways. Our oldest son Jake stayed in town and still lives in our previous house. Our second son, Nick, graduated in May and went away to college in the fall. It's all good, good, good. I'll fill you in over time...<br />
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I suppose that if I am to tell the full truth, I have to say that this adorable little boy above keeps me very, very...very busy. And IF I am able to blog at all, he will keep me from being long-winded.<br />
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I'm a country girl now. (Or at least I pretend.) We live a simple life; as simple as we can make it. <br />
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I've got a lot of pictures to share from the last six months - just a few at a time, a few minutes here and there.<br />
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So, hello. How've you been? Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-51363906171573485132012-01-07T11:45:00.000-06:002012-01-07T11:45:35.289-06:00ParkedHello everyone,<br />
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I am going to be parking this blog for awhile. I'm specifically NOT shutting down, just putting it in the parking garage for awhile. I may take it out for a Sunday drive once a month or so (for family updates and pictures,) but mostly it is going to simply sit and rest. :) I'm sure I'll be back at some point.<br />
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As for the series of posts on Raising Confident Sons, I know....I know. You should know by now that if I say I will do twenty posts, I will do six. :) If it is a thing essential to daily life, it will get done. If it is an extra thing, it will take twice as long and may never be fully accomplished. It's sorta like home-remodeling.<br />
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Our family is doing very well. We're just busy. This is my son Nick's last semester of high school before graduation and before he leaves for college in the fall. I am teaching my daughter Emily to drive a vehicle in anticipation that she will have her license by summer. I continue to homeschool six children, the four year old is very active, and the baby is learning to climb and get into things. The things that make for great blog fodder also make for a busy mom. :)<br />
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I'll see you around....<br />
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<br />Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-82234471128166847812012-01-01T15:46:00.002-06:002013-01-10T22:34:27.158-06:00IdentityIt is very popular online to choose a word or a theme for the new year.<br />
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My word for 2012 - the word that the Lord seems to be impressing upon my heart as personally important, is <b><i>IDENTITY.</i></b><br />
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The forties are proving to be an interesting decade. I like them. (I certainly like them better than the alternative.) Of course there are things I don't like about being over forty years of age, but mostly, it is a satisfying stage of life. I'm sure you've heard it before, but it truly does feel as if you begin to fit into your own self. You start to define what is really "you," as opposed to what you've picked up from others. You begin to drop burdens that weren't yours to carry all long; but to pick up others that were. Your responsibilities fit.<br />
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To that end, <b><i>"Identity."</i></b><br />
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I have struggled throughout my life to know who I am. I've pulled my security and station from family (husband and children, brothers and sisters, parents) or from church, or theology, or shakily enough, from friends.<br />
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This is natural, I think, particularly for a stay-at-home mother. It is wrong, though, and I've likely been one of the most insecure people you've ever met - and that is because I was drawing my security from the wrong source.<br />
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We are each supposed to be who we were fully meant to be through Christ. We are to identify with Him, first.<br />
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I am not a wife first, I am a Christian.<br />
I am not a mother first, I am a Christian.<br />
I am not an American first, I am a Christian.<br />
I am not a daughter or sister first, I am a Christian.<br />
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If I am a Christ-follower first, and I find my confidence and security in my relationship with God through the gift of Jesus Christ, then I will not label myself nor become discouraged and defeated with myself when I struggle or fail in any of my human relationships. I will realize that my worth does not come from these relationships (as precious as they are....) but that thru Christ I have the promise of renewal and redemption and forgiveness and hope that I can begin again and the Holy Spirit lives in me to help me in my weaknesses. <br />
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When I seek to find and establish my identity in Christ, my relationships will naturally be blessed by the overflow. I will be a better wife, a better mother, a better daughter, sister, and citizen. <br />
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But Christ is first - over everything.<br />
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If you pray for me in 2012, this is a good place to begin - that I might know Him better and find my <b><i>IDENTITY</i></b> in Him. Is there a word or a way that I might pray for you? <br />
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It was a pillowpalooza year. I have an inordinate amount of felt, and "felt" that I could surely come up with a way to give a gift to each child that represented their individuality. I don't have pictures of each pillow - mostly because I'm too lazy to run all over the house - but here's a sampling at least. Sam will forever and always be our "monkey boy." Not only does he love monkeys, he seems part monkey with his climbing and acrobatic skills.<br />
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Ben is our animal lover, especially puppies and kitties. He has also coveted these buttons from my button jar for a long, long time. They are rain-bow hued in concentric circles.<br />
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And maybe this Princess looks a little creepy, but Mariam likes it. :) I did them all free-hand without patterns, so sometimes that turned out okay and sometimes that turned out scary. :)<br />
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This one for Josiah is self-explanatory. :)<br />
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This is Emily's pillow - I made a very similar one for Julia. I took the fabric from a "former" dress they both had worn when they were ten years of age - it was a cute little yellow seersucker fabric. Memories. :) I made a LOT of these pillows, not just for the kids. For my brother and father, I used red plaid and grey micro-dotted cotton. I neglected to get pictures of all of the other pillows before they left our house. <a href="http://www.cluckclucksew.com/2011/03/tutorial-sprocket-pillows.html">Directions for these pillows are here</a>. They're super easy and fun to make.<br />
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Rosie got a new sister. She is yet-to-be-named. Rosie's sister is wearing Rosie's new dress. (Just like a sister, isn't it?)<br />
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And I was reminded just how fun it is to make dolly dresses. This was made with fabric from another one of the girls' outgrown skirts. I keep special/favorite clothing around from the children, planning to make memory-type items for them someday. It is nice when that actually works out. :) <br />
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We have plans to make several more doll outfits this coming year. For a 3 or 4 year old, I like to sew on the little velcro circles rather than buttons. (That's mostly because I don't like making button holes. :) I have used the same basic pattern for years now - it's McCall's 9066 - because it is easy. It's likely out of print, but there are internet sites where you can find old patterns. I am also making Barbie some FABULOUS evening dresses from the girls former (and worn-out) velvet dresses. I found an easy pattern from the Simplicity Archives (but available at Joanns or Walmart) number 5785. I have often been intimidated by Barbie sewing, but found this pattern to be enjoyable.<br />
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And finally, our solution to doll clothing storage. Like most little girls, I found that Mariam tended to throw her doll clothes into a basket or bag - then she ended up not using a lot of it. So, I found some doll-clothes hangers on Amazon. They are the kind made for 18" dolls and are super sturdy, came in a pack of 12 for $6. I'd like to link to them, but Amazon is still freezing up on me. We hang them on the end of Mariam's bunk bed to make a little closet of sorts. :)<br /><br />Thanks for letting me share some of the projects that have kept me busy over the last month. They were all fun to make; but I'm ready to start some new knitting projects. I'm also hoping for some reading time. :)<br /><br />God bless you all. We wish you a peaceful 2012.<br />
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<br />Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-52909081664942214622011-12-28T22:37:00.002-06:002013-01-10T22:34:27.148-06:002011 PicturesI thought you might like to see current photos of all of our children - current as of September, at least. :) We did not get a "group shot" this year - it's way too difficult to get everyone home, dressed nicely, and to have cooperative weather all at the same time. This was the best we could do....and I'm pretty sure that grandparents are glad we finally updated pictures on their walls. :) Here they are, oldest to youngest:<br />
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If you have given me even a moment of your time this year, I thank you. You honor me with your presence, and in this vast, vast land of web addresses - it means a lot that you chose to spend a little time at mine.<br />
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Many, many good wishes from our home to yours - wherever that may be. We are looking forward to a good year - for us, and for you. <br />
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God bless you friends, and God be with you.<br />
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He always is....<br />
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Emmanuel.Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-36869380490639325702011-12-22T00:11:00.000-06:002013-01-10T22:34:27.140-06:00ThingsMy daughter broke the flower candlestick while cleaning the kitchen for soon coming company.<br />
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I found her huddled over the countertop, holding thick chunks of blue glass and Elmer's glue.<br />
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"I broke it, Mommy," she wept.<br />
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"It's okay," I said simply, while I turned her hand into mine and transferred the glass.<br />
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"But I didn't want to break it. My hand slipped."<br />
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Our old kitchen was gleaming; as good as it was going to get, anyway.<br />
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She was so sad ~ the candle vase that broke came from my Grandpa and Grandma's house. It is the only thing that I received when they both were gone. There was no real estate. My mother, their daughter, brought home some worn dishtowels and a couple of pots and pans and that was it. Mom wanted me to have something, so gave me the candle vase.<br />
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It was sea-blue, thick glass, shaped like a tulip. Nestled in an antique black twining metal of leaves, it has sat on my kitchen window for 22 years. Blue is my favorite color; I have stared at it often and wondered, "Where did my grandfather get this? Did he think it was pretty? Does a farmer born in 1906 think such things?" Regardless, it has been carefully wrapped and unwrapped and set in every kitchen window of every house where I have lived.<br />
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And today? I swept it casually into the trash and asked my daughter to please, don't cry.<br />
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It's simple:<br />
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It's a thing. Just a thing.<br />
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It was lovely. I enjoyed it. But it's a thing. It's not worth my daughter's upset, not deserving of her dismay.<br />
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She couldn't quite believe me, was angry at herself and wanted to berate herself long past my request to "please don't cry."<br />
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Emily, darling, I got over "things" long ago. Things don't reveal true worth.<br />
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With nine children, my nice things broke one by one years ago. I confess that I was angry with the first broken "pretty," dismayed at the second, grieving at the third, resigned at the fourth, and so on. And then, I just got over it.<br />
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(And this is not to say that we shouldn't teach children to be careful, particularly with treasures which belong to other people. We should. My husband likes us to use glass cups, even for the little ones, for this very reason. He sees clean up of glass and the potential mess as educational - it teaches them to be careful. But children are children and are going to break things, regardless. *I* still break plenty of things.)<br />
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I have almost nothing original from my wedding. No china, no casserole dishes, no trinkets from the bridal shower. I have gone thru two lovely gold and diamond rings that could not hold up thru cloth diapers and the cooking, cleaning, gardening and laundry that comes with raising a large family.<br />
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Right now, I wear a $6 dollar sterling silver ring in place of a wedding band. It suits me just fine - it should, I picked it out.<br />
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And I'm just as much married, just as much in love - no, MORE in love - with my husband than the day we were married.<br />
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And Emmie? I have so much more of Grandpa than that candle vase. I have memories of him in my heart. These are secure, as long as I remember, and that is where they really matter. I remember he always kept gum for me, always had lemon drops for us in the red pedestal vase on his bedroom dresser. I remember his work suits hanging in his closet, the way his Vicks vapo-rub smelled when I hugged him in his recliner. I remember that he took me with him to deliver water to the country people with cisterns and how he'd buy me a "sodie pop." I remember the day when I was around eleven years old and he lost his balance and fell face down in the dirt. One of his old buddies said to me, "Help him up, girl. Help your Grandpa up. He falls down because he had Polio as a boy. His legs still freeze up."<br />
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I wondered why I never knew that, but I certainly never forgot that day nor forgot how much comfort and security my Grandpa gave to my life. The vase - a thing - was pretty, but gave nothing.<br />
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Things are never more important than the people who use them, or even the people who enjoy them. Things have zero eternal value. Things come, things go. Let them go, lightly.<br />
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You, and I, and the rest of us here at home - our lives together and the memories we create - these remain for as long as one of us remembers.<br />
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<br />Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10419728761742443893noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1193225017879543369.post-89140984326729569402011-12-17T22:22:00.000-06:002013-01-10T22:34:27.163-06:00Come with me on a trip to Amish country - part 1Every other month or so, my mama and I take a drive over to Amish land. I thought I might document the journey. It's not very pretty at this time of year; the fields that usually wave green or gold lie mostly fallow and the trees are desolate. Next time, maybe I'll remember my camera in the spring.<br />
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We start out early. I am in Indiana. Our small town sits on a bluff overlooking the Ohio River. Once we leave town, we wind thru field and forest until we come to another couple of rivers we must cross: first, the Wabash, which lands us in Illinois, and then, the Little Wabash. Both of these rivers were swollen destructively this Spring. Many homes were ruined, little towns nearly went under.<br />
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I have a couple of tag-alongs today, Mariam and Julia. They are bundled against the cold; but they come for the cheap candy. We will stop to pick up Grandma in Illinois.<br />
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Aside from the rivers, the landscape is flat. This is mostly farming territory - well, that and oil wells, and coal mines. The rivers are vital shipping routes for both fuel and food. This area is also rich in Native American history. There are several large Indian Mounds and archeological sites in our location, plus many which have never been excavated.<br />
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After driving for about 45 minutes, I come to the Shawnee National Forest. It, too, is drab in winter, but it is full of life. I almost always see wild turkeys, perhaps a bobcat, and of course, herds of deer. I find that I can't show good perspective with my camera from this angle. In reality, my van was headed down a very steep hill, and the road ahead is a steady climb upward. It always makes the kids in the back squeal with delight. Fifteen minutes on this road, and then we hit gravel or dirt for the rest of the way. In over two hours of driving, I will cross three rivers and thru three states, yet never go thru a town of more than 400 people.<br />
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This photo is looking down over a wide and sweeping valley. The road I take is part gravel, part dirt; it rides the rim of an extinct volcano. The rim is hilly and rugged, forested. The inner portion, mostly plains and used for keeping livestock. The soil is too rocky to grow much more than hay.<br />
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It's about 7:30 now. I'll be at the farm in less than 10 minutes. I'm running right on time, mom should be expecting me. I'm guessing she'll bring sandwiches for lunch and maybe a bag of popcorn. We like to go to the Amish stores in Kentucky, because they have a store of discontinued items and also a bulk foods store. I can buy 25 lb. bags of oats and a gallon of coconut oil, home-made cheddar cheese and bacon. We stock up when we go - enough to last several months if need be.<br />
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It takes awhile to learn to drive these backroads. I could never remember if it was "right at the Y" and "left at the T," or the other way around. You'll notice there are no street signs. :)<br />
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This is what we call the "ridge road." A few people live up there. It has recently been cleared, after being blocked for the better part of a year following an ice storm. My vehicle would never make it all the way to the top, it would require a four-wheel drive. An ATV would be better, as the road gets skinny. <br />
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Almost there. Mom is waiting, Dad is picking out pecans at the kitchen table by the light of one tiny lamp. The wood smoke smells wonderful in the crisp country air, the cabin is a deep comforting warm. When we return, Dad will still be picking out pecans to give to us kids for Christmas. He always makes sure that I have a gallon or so picked out before Christmas, so that I can do my "Christmas baking."<br />
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There's still frost on the ground, and a light glazing of ice on the pond.<br />
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First, a quick stop at Grandpa's outhouse. Does anyone recognize what these stepping stones are?<br />
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(Old combine disks. I've been tripping over them barefoot for thirty years. Freezing cold on a cool morning, searing to tender toes in the heat - but better than the sharp rocks that surround them any day.)<br />
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We wash hands (you were wondering that, weren't you?,) collect Grandma (yes, to the sandwiches and popcorn,) wave goodbye to Grandpa and we're off.<br />
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Off thru more woods, past the long-horn cattle and across a few streams, thru a little town, until we come to the ferry that will take us across the Ohio River.<br />
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As you can see, the town is heavily decorated for Christmas.<br />
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The ferry is on the other side of the Ohio. It will be a 15 or 20 minute wait.<br />
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The river is high today, higher than I've ever crossed it before. (But not higher than it's ever been, not by a long shot.) Usually, there is a large parking lot, and the ramp is out by the trees. I actually have to drive thru water when I drive off the ramp on the other side.<br />
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I'm at the front of the ferry. There's just one other vehicle on with me today - a semi truck. That's better than being positioned in between two huge trucks carrying logs. That always makes me uncomfortable.<br />
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The river is choppy today - the ferry keeps getting pulled into the current. I always admire the captain and his skill; but think what a boring job it must be to make the same trek, back and forth, back and forth - all day long.<br />
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We're halfway to Kentucky now, looking back at the limestone cliffs. You can't see it very well, but tucked into one crevasse there is a large cave. It was used originally as an Indian dwelling, then as a pirate's cave. River pirates would lure steamboats in with music and booze, then rob the passengers. In later years, it was used as a location for making bootleg whiskey, and even as a gangster hideout in the 1930s and 40s. The cave and the river have a sometimes wild history. That always makes for a fun fieldtrip, especially with little boys.</div>
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We returned home by 2 p.m., loaded with bounty ~</div>
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